"Whereas the Mother is here to offer nuturing and support, the Father reminds us to balance by ensuring we also always have enough time, space and enjoyment for yourself."
EXHAUSTION - RESOLVE - DIVINE WILL
Who is this Archetype?
The Father is loved in the community, and people trust his ethics and know they can count on him. He is generous with himself and others and understands the importance of balancing his desire to serve the world and his need to enjoy his life. The health of the community depends on people like the Father who have true inner resolve and a balanced physical, emotional and spiritual life.
The Father shows us how we can come home to the true meaning of being human. The Father doesn’t overexert his willpower to get things the way he wants because he knows that can lead to exhaustion. Instead, he trusts God/the Universe and life itself. He knows he is supported by a higher force, so he doesn’t have to shoulder all the responsibility himself--even though he will if he needs to.
The Father knows there needs to be a balance of work and relaxation. He can show us how to relax, deeply and fully, with our whole being. He is relaxed inside and works in harmony with his true nature and environment. He is tapped into a source of divine energy that helps him complete any undertaking, no matter how difficult. He makes things look easy even when they are not.
The Father will do anything for his family and community, and what makes it worth it is feeling appreciated. Coming home to a grateful family recharges the Father and makes his efforts worth it.
The Father thrives with the understanding and loyalty of the Mother (37). When there is clear communication, the Mother will always accommodate his needs for space, aloneness and recuperation whilst supporting him during the process. Without her energy, the Father may feel lonely. He loves to have a family and community to spread and share resources with.
Service, Boundaries, Balance, Relaxation
Virgo - Mutable Earth
Thunder over Water
Quarter of Duality
Theme: Purpose Fulfilled Through Relationships
I know the Divine has my back
Needs a tribe to feel life has meaning
Tendency to overwork
Gene Key Patterns:
Victim of Fatigue
You lack firm boundaries in life. You easily acquiesce to manipulation by others, lacking the will to stand up for yourself. This permissive habit is rooted in denial of your own needs, typically arising from patterns and coping strategies that developed in childhood. You will give of yourself tirelessly and usually to people or organizations that never really care about you. It will be more and more drained since you don't value yourself and your energy enough.
From the Gene Keys
You are denying a deep rage that has its roots in a difficult childhood. This kind of denial distorts the rage into contempt for others. You can be very arrogant. You prey on the weaknesses of others for your own benefit. Such a sustained, disdainful attitude means that you cannot afford to allow anyone to get too close to you. This reactive denial feeds on disrespect for others, and thus you gradually erode your energy by cutting away all your support. Because your strong will is fueled by unconscious rage, you don’t often appear to be exhausted, but inside, your constant need to isolate yourself from your community takes its toll in the end.
From the Gene Keys
Questions to Consider:
Where (with whom) do you find it most difficult to set a limit?
What are you afraid of?
Where are you not valuing yourself and your precious energy? What (or who) in your life exhausts you?
What is your relationship with anger?
Do you deny your own needs? If yes, when did you begin denying yourself?
Are you getting enough alone time?
Have you learned how to enjoy your solitude? What truly relaxes you?
What (or Who) nurtures you?
Do you keep others at a distance because of painful experiences?
Do you isolate?
Have you ever felt your inner Resolve aligned with Divine Will?
Allow yourself to say ‘no’ to someone or something today.
Write your reflections in your journal.
"I am responsible for transforming our civilization and society through fruitful alliances, solid boundaries and mutually beneficial exchanges between individuals, communities and even entire nations."
- The Father
UNDERSTAND THE FATHER
BELLA EXPLAINS THE FATHER AND WEAVES THE TEACHINGS FROM THE GENE KEYS AND HUMAN DESIGN.
"I exude an aura of splendid aloneness and displays an exquisite independence from the normal needs of human beings. My words are simple, logical, penetrating and sometimes deeply shocking."
- The Father
Gene Key Title: The Will to Surrender
Exhaustion – Resolve – Divine Will
Victim of Fatigue
Shadow: The Energetics of Force and Will (Exhaustion)
“The 40th shadow is one of the more deep-seated causes of cancerous disease on our planet.”
Gift: The Lost Art of Doing Nothing (Resolve)
“The 40th Gift of resolve is about becoming adept at giving to yourself.”
Siddhi: Complete Physical Relaxation (Divine Will)
“You are absolutely free to do as you wish in life and yet at the same time nothing you do is really in your hands.”
EMBRACE your shadows. Sometimes our shadows just need attention and love to be transformed. An embrace is a hug. We pull it in; we do not push away. Hug until it blends and transforms inside of you, revealing the GIFT within. The gift is then RELEASED within you and outside of you. You EMBODY the Siddhi when this essence vibrates through your whole being.
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"Whenever your actions are in alignment with the universe the requisite energy is supplied from deep within your being. However, when your actions do not flow from your true source but are forced, your energy will be depleted."
- The Father
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