"I can sense conflict in others before it even arises. This enables me to temper my own actions and/or words to disperse the conflict."
CONFLICT - DIPLOMACY - PEACE
Who is this Archetype?
The Peacemaker can dissolve barriers to peace and knows precisely when it’s time to act and speak transparently from her heart. She cultivates internal balance, emotional awareness, and responsibility to bring balance into life.
Standing as a set of scales, balancing high emotions in one hand and clear resolution in the other, the Peacemaker finds solutions by meeting people halfway, seeking a win-win and settling matters creatively with a sense of justice. She brings clarity as a diplomat who weighs each situation on its merits. She sees her own and others’ weaknesses without judging. She knows that for growth, there has to be a certain amount of friction.
Many things in life are emotionally driven and not rational. There is an emotional maturity to the Peacemaker. People can feel her wisdom, strength, softness and vulnerability and open up to her— her presence has the power to shift the energy of any situation and move everyone present into calm and harmony.
Physically, conflict resolution regulates the pH in our bodies, representing the fine balance between acid and alkaline that counts for so much of our wellbeing. In intimate relationships, the Peacemaker establishes and maintains the boundary between what is outside and what is inside the body. She determines who to be intimate with, when, and the bonding roles that will be played out.
The Peacemaker has a penetrating energy that can break into people's energy fields, creating friction when she steps into another person’s aura. The friction created when this archetype steps into another person's aura creates electromagnetics, which are emotional and energetic not seductive. As the gatekeeper of the flood of emotions through the solar plexus she resolves the imbalance. As a resonance is reached, the energy opens, and intimacy can proceed.
The Peacemaker knows that intimacy waited for has the possibility of being nurturing, so she discriminates emotionally and sexually. She knows if she doesn’t wait, the relationship won’t feel nurturing and will, consequently, fall apart. She wants to discern and evaluate before penetration can happen and communicates clearly when she is open or closed to intimacy.
Sexually, she gets clarity over time. When it is right for her, she drops all defenses and lets down any guard.
The Peacemaker flourishes through relationships, and her transparency and balanced demeanor make her a cherished partner.
Arbitrer, Skin, Protection, Sensitivity
Virgo - Mutable Earth
Heaven over Water
Quarter of Duality
Theme: Purpose fulfilled through Relationships
An urge to attain a state of peace and balance
Can sense and resolve conflict
Creates healthy boundaries
Caution with intimacy
Nervousness over being open to others
Gene Key Patterns:
Victim of Emotions
You are concerned with maintaining peace between people, regardless of the cost. You compromise yourself in order to maintain control of your emotional environment. This is the defense pattern of over-attentiveness. You sweep conflict under the carpet by adopting any behavior that will keep it at bay. The problem here is that unless conflict is dealt with transparently, it tends to eventually explode. Since you are putting on a false mask, you will invoke unconscious distrust in others. You tend to draw tactless people to you, resulting in spectacularly dysfunctional relationships and family dynamics.
From the Gene Keys
You are always finding yourself in difficult emotional situations, which you make worse by giving vent to your anger as well as projecting it onto others. You are unable to take responsibility for your own volatile feelings. Your most common defense is to lash out and then storm away. Your dilemma is that you are deaf to your own lack of tact. You assume that the problem is always in the other person, which, unfortunately, earns you no friends and makes it very difficult for others to get close to you, unless they are over-attentive and submissive.
From the Gene Keys
Questions to Consider:
Is it difficult for you to let people in all the way?
Do you feel like you are allergic to or can’t stand certain people?
Would you say that you are a peacemaker? How does it play out in your life?
Do you avoid uncomfortable feelings?
Do you try to mediate? Avoid confrontation?
Do you resonate with being tactless or over-attentive?
Are you spending a lot of energy trying to please other people? What are the mechanics of this in your life? How do you feel? Can you imagine a different way of being with others?
Do you often find yourself overreacting and over-dramatizing things?
Are you addicted to conflict or emotional turmoil? What does that look like? Can you imagine a different experience?
Do you experience peace in your relationships? Harmony? Balance?
How can you take more responsibility for your feelings and express them in a less reactive, more open and honest way?
Is there a current situation in your life where you are feeling defensive and keeping your guard is up?
Do you find yourself defensive often?
When conflict is brewing, do you feel it in your body? What happens then?
When you’re emotional, do you move through that experience with awareness? What does it look like when you’re moving through something emotional?
What’s easiest for you? Giving? Receiving? Listening? Expressing?
Can you hold yourself or others without judgement?
Are you able to bring different people or groups together through win-win solutions?
Do you use discernment in relationships?
Where are you able to create harmony from disharmony?
Are you able to balance different points of view, desires, opposites?
How aware of your body are you when you are experiencing conflict, pressure, desire?
Are you known as a diplomat?
EXPLORING THE ARCHETYPE
"Peace is the reality experienced once all boundaries have dissolved."
- The Peacemaker
UNDERSTAND THE PEACEMAKER
BELLA EXPLAINS THE PEACEMAKER AND WEAVES THE TEACHINGS FROM THE GENE KEYS AND HUMAN DESIGN.
"For a relationship to be healthy there must be a balance of yin and yang, of receiving and giving, listening and expressing."
- The Peacemaker
Gene Key Title: The Path to Peace
Conflict – Diplomacy – Peace
Victim of Emotions
Fear of Intimacy
Shadow: The Battle of the Sexes (Conflict)
“Conflict breaks out whenever two or more people agree to identify with their emotional state.”
Gift: Dropping Your Defenses (Diplomacy)
“Emotional maturity means that your awareness operates even during the most profound emotional states”
Siddhi: Building the Body of Glory (Peace)
“The ultimate defense is emptiness. This is the essence of wisdom taught by the great sages."
EMBRACE your shadows. Sometimes our shadows just need attention and love to be transformed. An embrace is a hug. We pull it in; we do not push away. Hug until it blends and transforms inside of you, revealing the GIFT within. The gift is then RELEASED within you and outside of you. You EMBODY the Siddhi when this essence vibrates through your whole being.
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"Emotional maturity means that your awareness operates even during the most profound emotional states."
- The Peacemaker
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